...and He rested on the seventh day from all His work which He had done. Genesis 2:2 NKJV
…then
He listened to some really cool music.
Growing up in a Baptist family
in the Bible Belt (Akron, OH), going to church was
something a young Scott Stine "had" to do, not
really "want" to do. His Grandma was a Sunday
School teacher at what was, at the time, one of the largest
Baptist churches around. So, when the doors were open,
Scott and family were there.
But family issues, including a strained relationship with
his dad, led to a very rebellious young man and a further
alienation from the church and faith in God. After having
to leave friends behind in Akron to move to San Antonio,
Scott was left to live what he terms his "angry years". His
attention turned to his guitar, which gave him a focus and
kept him out of the major drug scenes that thrived in the
community around him. Anger and passion for his instrument
fueled his fire and he sought to control his own life
through music.
Life, it seemed, started going his way. After moving to
Dallas, he was signed to Shrapnel Records in early 1993
(with Tommy Lamey). Being signed to Shrapnel Records was a
goal that he had set for himself early on. He imagined
himself so successful on Shrapnel, hanging out by the pool
with all the good-looking chicks around him - just as he
imagined guitarist Paul Gilbert was doing while on Shrapnel
(someone ask PG what he was really doing back
during the Shrapnel days!) Also, though he was not looking
for love, it found him. In the summer of 1993, Scott and
Lori started dating.
Their paths had crossed before because she was a bass
player in bands around town. He had tried to meet her a
couple of years prior, but said that she completely
dismissed him. If you ask her, she'll deny this, but claim
it is his story so let him keep it. It was during the next
few years that Lori (who had grown up in church, but like
Scott, rebelled and walked away) started feeling a little
tug to re-establish that relationship with God.
In his music life, doors were seeming to close at every
turn. The distribution and push from the record label
wasn't what he was expecting, most of the companies he went
to seeking endorsements turned him away, band members were
going their own way, and his direction in the sense of
musical style was going haywire. He took over his brother's
position in another Shrapnel Records band and tried again
to force open the closed doors. A couple opened for him and
again, life seemed to be going his way. But the real
"success" that Scott had imagined kept eluding him.
One door had consistently stayed open for him - Lori. On a
Christmas Eve, in front of family, Scott proposed, and she
joyfully accepted. But it was then that the little tug that
she had felt all along became a loud voice in front of her.
If a future was to be spent with this man, she knew they
could not do it alone. She told Scott that she felt very
strongly about being married in a church, and one they
called home - not a "rent-a-church." So she started
visiting churches in their area to see what fit best for
them. On Easter Sunday in 1996, she found the one: Grace
Community Church in Plano, TX. They had a full band on the
stage playing songs she had never heard played in a church
before. This would be the one she could get Scott to go to.
But Scott wasn't quite ready to step back into the "church
thing." Every Sunday morning for six months, Lori would ask
Scott if he wanted to go with her, and every Sunday he
responded with a plain and simple "no." Then one morning
the "no" changed to "I don't want to have to get dressed up
to go to church" (remembering the suits he had to wear as a
kid going to church). But Lori explained that this church
didn't expect you to get dressed up...you could even wear
shorts if you wanted to. That was unheard of to him, but it
got him thinking. In late September of 1996, Scott stepped
back into the doors of church.
After attending for a while, he knew that this band could
use his help and that if God truly gave him the talent that
he had, then he really needed to give some time back to
God. He started volunteering his time and playing for
services. When a new music director came in and recognized
Scott's talent, he pulled Scott aside for a talk about
Scott's spiritual walk. It was during this time that Scott
decided to re-commit his life to Christ. Shortly after
that, in January of 2000, the church hired him as the
Instrumental Music Director.
After the birth of his son in 2001, Scott started to
question his success again. But when it was pointed out to
him that he was able to have a career playing music, owned
his own home, was able to work from home and spend time
with his family, it dawned on him that success was not
necessarily a financial number. Life was not Scott's to
control, but to turn control over to God and let Him lead.
Scott never battled the things that haunt many musicians,
like drugs, alcohol, depression, or disease, but he did
battle emotional issues like pride, anger, cynicism, and
sarcasm. And sometimes these things can be as deadly to a
person as the previous list. It has been through his
continued walk and his relationship in Christ that Scott
has learned to face these demons and turn them over to God.
As anyone who has suffered an addiction can tell you, it is
a day by day walk - never ending. It is in this that Scott
has really grasped that success can be the day to day joys
that truly living life can bring.
In this aspect, Scott Stine has been extremely
successful!